Daddy, what did we do today?
by Brent Gallagher

When I put my 2 year old daughter Ava to sleep at night, she always asks “Daddy, what did we do today?”
I take a few minutes to replay the highlights of the day: “You played with your friends at school. I picked you up and we went to swim lessons. Then we came home and played, ate dinner, took a bath, read our books and said our prayers.”
In between each point I bring up, she exclaims “YES!” as she rolls around and kicks her feet with excitement as if she’s reliving the day all over again.
After our time of reflecting on the day, she follows up with “What will we do tomorrow?”

In a day in the life of a 2 year old, not much changes. I tell her about the fun she will have at school, who she gets to play with, highlight talking to grandma or going to Monkey Joes, let her know who’s picking her up from daycare, and any other special events for the following day.
Again, she gets fired up about all the endless fun and possibilities of what the new day will bring.
When Ava wakes up, she’s usually fired up and already talking about the plans of the day. She knows her day has a purpose. And when you have purpose, your attitude is different. You walk taller. Your confidence is beaming. You move through your day with direction, as opposed to walking aimlessly wondering what will happen next.
What Ava has learned is to take time at the end of each day to reflect on all the positives, fun and progress she has made. She replays all the good things in her day, which builds her confidence. She finishes her day with an ‘attitude is everything’ mentality that’s infectious.
When Ava asks about what’s happening tomorrow, she’s looking to the future and planning out the day before it even happens. This instills in her a purpose for the day ahead. She falls asleep dreaming about all the great things tomorrow will bring. And when she wakes up, she knows that it’s going to be an awesome day. She’s usually fired up, bouncing in her bed and ready to attack the day full steam ahead.
What about you? What if you took 5-10 minutes each night to reflect on all the positives in your life? Your health. The ability to make your own decisions. The blessings of a family, children, spouse, and a roof over your head. The ability to break a sweat in a workout. The choice you have to eat healthy foods. The path you’re traveling down in your career. There are endless possibilities for each of us.
The question is: have you taken the time lately to write down or reflect upon these opportunities instead of all the negative things that happened in your day.
What if you planned out your day the night before? We all do this the day before vacation, so I know you can do it. We all make lists of the things we need to accomplish before hopping in the car for a week long trip. When you wake, you have purpose, a mission if you will to accomplish before your 3:00pm flight. It’s crazy how productive you can be with a little planning the day before.
So take a lesson from my 2 year old daughter Ava – reflection and visualization will change your life. You’ll find more hours in your day and develop such an infectious attitude of gratitude that will amaze and inspire those around you to become a better version of themselves.






